Cindy's Life in U.S.

This is my second time live in U.S. but this blog is my first blog in English and I will post a lot of things in my U.S. life

Monday, March 05, 2007

Single or Couple?

Sometimes I like to be single,
but sometimes I want to be in love with someone.
I think I am not a good person to be a girlfriend or a wife right now,
because I'm still learning how to be a good girlfriend or wife. ^^
Recently, I'm thinking about "love".

Love someone is hard.
Why?
Because many couples divorce and many bad news about marriage happen on each single day.
Like a couple cheating or fighting to each other.
How long will we love each other?
You have been in love with someone for a long time,
even there is no love in between, but you are still together.
That is because you are used to do things with each other, not love.
To this kind of couple, love does not exist.
On the other hand, "be used to" is very awful thing for a couple.

I really want to be a housewife. (This is a my dream ^^)
I want to let my husband and children feel that they have a good family,
and they can relax when they come home.
I really want to get married, but I'm afraid.
Because sometimes a small thing happen can cause a couple divorces.
Therefore, love is really hard to find and learn in my life.

Anyway, I am just telling what I think and feel about "love."
You don't need to agree with me.
If you have different opinion from mine, welcome to leave comment.
I am glade to see different opinions and I will respect it. ^^

PS. I really wish I will have a good marriage. QQ

2 Comments:

Blogger Nina Liakos said...

This is a deep topic! Most people want to love and be loved, I think, but there are so many different kinds and degrees of love. Romantic love or infatuation (such as Romeo felt for Juliet) doesn't last forever. I don't think it's bad to be used to your partner. It's a different phase of love than the initial thrills and chills, that's all! It's impossible to go through life thinking of nothing besides your lover. There are jobs to do, meals to cook, kids to raise, movies to see, books to read.... If we lived our lives in a state of perpetual infatuation, nothing would ever be accomplished by anyone. But that doesn't mean love does not last. You still love your family even if you are not infatuated with them.

11:36 AM  
Blogger jeab said...

I have heard someone said the love and married are similar the lottery if you lucky you will win same as if you choose the good guy it's means you win the lottery.

10:03 PM  

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